most iconic moments: you can have the guts and the courtesy to tell a woman to her face that you no longer wanna see her. call me crazy, but i think that you can make a point of ending your relationship in a manner that does not include an e-mail, a doorman or a missing person’s report. i think you can all get over the fear of looking like the bad guy and actually have the uncomfortable breakup conversation, because here’s what. avoiding that is what makes you the bad guy. and just so you know, most women aren’t angry irrational psychos. we just want an ending to a relationship that is thoughtful and decent, and honors what we had together.